Why Must Society Pay for the Poor People’s Lack of Sexual Behavior and Responsibility?

 

What would happen to this country if welfare did not exist? How many children would not be born to mothers who cannot afford to support them? Would lesser children come into this world as accidents or mistakes? Would irresponsible females consider their choices and exercise birth control options? Would health officials painstakingly report a skyrocket of abortions yearly?

What else can we do to get the message out to folks who continue to have more children and continue to lack the ability to care for the children they do have. What else can we do to get the message through so that consider as opposed to denying themselves of their choices and options. What else can we do before they plunge into a bigger hole and pull out more babies?

 

Battered Women’s Revenge

 

When and if battered females are convicted of killing their abusive mates, they did not “lose in court because of an insidious stereotyping that continues to work against them.” (Ms. Magazine, July/August 1993). They lose because the 1984 New Jersey Supreme Court had decided that battered females do not accept responsibility for their circumstances and tolerate the beatings from their abuser.

 

Poison in the Brain

 

Throughout his childhood life, he was a victim of physical and mental, spiritual and emotional abuse. Because of the constant physical torment, he had developed periods of amnesia and blackouts. Some old scars from this abuse are still very fresh in his brain. However, the great majority of people out there with head injuries, epileptic symptoms and psychotic behavior are not violent. But when you put all of these together with history of family violence and abuse, you can create an extremely violent person.

 

Is There Any Harm in Pretending?

 

Some women fake orgasm to get it over and done. Sex isn’t such a hot deal for a lot of ambitious, career oriented women, other matters take precedence to having sex and/or a relationship. These women feel comfortable pretending and pleasing their lover, and keeping their man’s ego intact. Men fake it if they have trouble climaxing or they feel they are about to lose their erection, hence fooling their partner.

 

To Know and To Love Thyself

 

Self-esteem and self confidence stems from the knowledge that we have self-value no matter what our circumstances. We value who we are because our inmost confidence guides us in facing any challenge, including failure. We know that it doesn’t matter we’ve been through, where we come from, who our parents are, or what our social or economic status may be. What does matter is how we choose to love, how we express that love through our work, our family, and what we have to offer to the world.

 

A Secret Unveiled - Marital Cheaters

 

Immoral behavior is the American way for many folks. A study reported in The Daily News (1996) showed that the figures are even higher each year of married people having extramarital affairs. When wronged women and men pay private eyes to confirm and film spousal indiscretions with a hidden camera, you know there is a serious problem. For one investigative bureau, Bambino Associates, their business has increased 50%.

 

The Justice System's Silence toward Our Littlest Criminals

 

How much hope must the people in our communities endure before the Courts of Law realizes that we have a major problem of juvenile committing serious crimes in this country, every day. What will it take for the judges in our legal systems to address the issue head-on, set laws to decrease the crimes, if for only the innocent people in our societies?

More than ten years and the hideousness of juvenile crime has worsened; no one is sending the message to the youngsters. Now we have predicted criminals who are becoming a little older and they pull the trigger when they get a gun in their hands, mindless of the consequences, because the drill in court is that there are no consequences.

How do these victims cope with the trauma, mental disabilities and/or death of a loved one? What if the victim is under age or an adolescent. How do the policy makers, the legal system and its appointed mental health examiners help the victims to understand what was done to her or him, and cannot get past the incident, erase the emotional and mental scars the criminal has deliberately inflicted and/or remorselessly inflicted upon a once mentally healthy girl or boy of 14 with hope and promise for a bright future? How do they live their life and move forward into the future?

 

The Invisible Victims - Violence Against Men

 

Have battered males become the invisible victims in America? Is this reversed abuse? Is society in denial? Do the people in our communities feel uncomfortable or embarrassed with the idea that perhaps females may be as guilty as males of relationship and family violence? Has society become accustomed to the media portraying females as enduring victims?

Battered males obtain close to zero support from the police as well as from lawyers, prosecutors, judges and the media. People do not take physically abused males seriously. People heckle the abused when he confides accepting and allowing his girlfriend or his wife to beat him. Why? Because society has given males the right to violence, while portraying females as peaceful and passive.